CFNM thought.

July 23, 2007 at 11:21 am (cfnm, exhibitionism, kink, Uncategorized)

There seems to be two kinds of CFNM. The kink breaks down into two subcategories, as far as I can tell.

There’s the submissive male, stripper people. Which is where I first encountered it. This is usually a scene where a man, often a stripper, is naked in front of a bunch of women. Often the women have tricked him, coerced or forced the male to remove his clothes. This often ends in the women masturbating the man into orgasm.

The other type is the prostitute fantasy, as I call it. Where the man is naked but the woman is clothed, and she gives him a blowjob and handjob. This is often one on one and seems to be more of a normal oral sex act with just a little twist: the man is naked but the woman isn’t. This one really seems to be more about the clothing. The submissive scenario seems to be more about the man being embarrased. Like it’s a form of exhibitionism. The prostitute fantasy seems to be about the woman wearing clothes and being in a rush.

I was right. They call it positive CFNM and negative CFNM. I’m learning all kinds of things about this fetish. It’s new to me. Apparently CFNM was invented on this site, Sensations for Women.  From there it got out into the general population. It’s been picked up by print porn mags and has grown beyond the initial community that started it.

Apparently the boys aren’t letting the girls play, according to this post. Maybe there’s a female friendly board out there. That sounds like more fun for me, anyway.

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